Cake: Are You Trying to Eat it and Have it Too?

Having your cake and eating it too - probably sounds like a pretty sweet deal but in relationships, give and take is necessary for all parties to feel appreciated and an active participant. .
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When one gives too much, they eventually can feel burnt out and taken for granted.
When one takes too much, they eventually can feel anxious about contributing less to the relationship. Or worse yet, start to take their partner(s) for granted. .
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In solid, well balanced relationships, we must ensure that our give and takes are equal, along with day to day responsibilities. .
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One partner may feel they are putting all the effort into the relationship but not participating in any chores or household tasks. The other partner may feel as though there’s no energy left for the relationship as they are keeping the household afloat. - in this scenario, equal distribution of household tasks will free up both partners to have more space for the relationship, rebalancing the give and takes! .
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If you feel like you’re having your cake and eating it too, check in with your partner see if there is anything you can help with! Even a check in usually allows for people to feel seen!