Threesomes

Are threesomes a relationship killer or something that has the potential to deepen them? .
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The answer is usually dependent on the communication that happens around the threesome. If you’re considering this, have you talked about your expectations, boundaries and limits? .
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Do you have a plan for talking about it afterwards? What the plan is for the third person? Is it someone you know? How are you going to interact with them afterwards ? Do you have boundaries and limits around the third? .
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Threesomes have the potential for deepening a relationship, if the communication around it is done well and ahead of time! Threesomes can also be harmful without the proper communication. .
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If this is something your couple is interested in, talk about it! Either on your own or with a therapist! We can help you negotiate what’s important to you.