Fantasy

Have you ever had a great sexual fantasy, then tried to play it out and didn’t enjoy it at all? This is fairly common with power and pain play - 50 shades of grey sounds great until it doesn’t (for some ppl it does in fantasy and reality!! You have to find what’s right for you!)
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Fantasies can be just that - fantasies. Some things are better hypothetically than in reality and some things played out are better than even expected. That is the beauty of fantasy. You can share it with your partner, role play/pretend to play out the fantasy or use part of it or none at all. .
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Sometimes sharing a fantasy can be wonderful sex play - just be clear as to whether it is the type of fantasy you’d be interested in playing out or the type you’d just like to share.