Sex Play, Not Foreplay

In follow-up of the last post and at risk of potentially sounding like a broken record - language is sooo important! And when we call anything that comes before penetrative sex « foreplay » we miss out on so many wonderful sexual experiences while also putting penetrative sex on a pedestal. .
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This mindset typically has people rushing through all types of touch, oral sex, and other fun sexual play to get right to the « main event ». Because the assumption is that it’s « pre-sex » activity meaning not really as important. .
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If we stop calling it foreplay and start treating all sexual activity equally, we diversify our sexual menu by adding so many more options (see previous post for some of those options!). And I mean, let’s get real, no one wants the same thing for dinner every night, even if it is their favorite!